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Racist Homophobe Blames Black People for Trans Rights

Yes, you unfortunately read that correctly. In a stunning display of mental gymnastics, Beverly Goldstein, a 70-year-old Republican woman who is running for a seat in the House of Representatives, in a tweet blames illiterate black people who don't attend church every Sunday for the new anti-discrimination bills protecting LGBT people that were passed in Ohio recently, reports Queerty.

Can anyone make sense of that? Or find any correlation between illiterate people and transgender people? If she's looking for the minority vote, she's going about it completely wrong. To make matters worse, Goldstein is running against Marcia Fudge, a black woman, who called Goldstein's tweet racist and homophobic. Here is the tweet:

 

 

And you can view the 66% illiteracy statistic Seeds of Literacy While it doesn't mention the races of the people involved in this statistic, it's safe to assume that the entire 66% is not comprised solely of black people, nor does it say anything about church or anti-discrimination bills. So what is she even talking about? Her husband, Michael, offers an explanation. He says

"If most of them understood that this ordinance would allow transgender males, or sex offenders who masquerade as transgender males, to use women’s bathrooms regularly used by mothers and daughters, thereby endangering the safety of girls and women, they probably would have brought pressure to bear on their elected county representatives not to bring the resolution in the first place. But those who cannot read cannot be expected to know about the negative effects of the resolution."

Will anyone tell him that transgender males use the men's room or??? He also offers no evidence of the perceived negative effects of the resolution, which leads me to believe he just wants people to accept what he says without question. 

What's truly frightening is that there are still people in this country who think like the Goldsteins do. Transgender people just want to use the restroom that matches their gender identity, not to go and do nefarious things to women in public bathrooms. Perhaps Mrs. Goldstein should take her own advice and read up on transgender rights. There are currently nineteen states plus the District of Columbia that allow transgender people to use the restroom that aligns with their gender identity, according to CNN. Surely we would have heard about sexual predators taking advantage of those protections by now, no?


h/t: QueertySeeds of LiteracyCNN

 

Woman Asked to Terminate Marriage in Order to Keep Her Job, Superintendent Not Pleased

Roncalli High School, a Catholic high school in Indianapolis recently made media attention after placing a long-standing an popular guidance counselor, Shelly Fitzgerald, on administrative leave. Her crime? Being married to a woman. 

Jennifer McCormick, Indiana's Superintendent of Instruction, was not pleased with Roncalli High School's decision, as the school enrolled 350 students through a voucher program, which is about $1.5 million in tax dollars. McCormick reasoning is that any school receiving public funds should not exclude anyone, Fox 59 reports. She says "I think the notion that you can’t send a child that takes taxpayers’ money to a school because they identify LGBT, that’s a little bit antiquated and it should not be accepted in this state." It makes sense. If any organization is receiving funding from the public, it stands to reason that they should not exclude anyone from attending and/or using their services.

Shelly Fitzgerald appeared on Ellen to share her story. On the popular program, Fitzgerald mentions that she has worked at Roncalli for fifteen years and also attended the school so she is familiar with the ins and outs of it. The principle and the president of the school emailed her and asked to meet with her, to which she responded with an email asking for details about the meeting and he said that someone had turned in her marriage certificate that was shown to the principle and then to the archbishop. 

While in the meeting, the principle handed Shelly a copy of her marriage certificate and asked who the other person is. Shelly answered honestly with "that's my wife, Victoria." This was apparently a big no no to the principle, president, and archbishop because they gave her three options:

  1. Divorce her wife
  2. Resign from her fifteen-year position
  3. Keep quiet about her marriage and what was happening and make sure that it doesn't get out into the media, which would allow her to keep her job for the rest of the year but her contract wouldn't be renewed for the next year.

Most of the school's staff knew that Fitzgerald was gay and had no problem with it.

A few days after the meeting, Shelly Fitzgerald was placed on paid administrative leave and banned from campus and a letter was sent out explaining that she was on administrative leave because she is married to a woman. They released knowledge of her marriage on social media and sent out a press release, effectively outing her as a lesbian. So much for trying to keep it quiet... Shelly met multiple times with the archbishop to discuss changes in the contract to be more inclusive of LGBT people, but he said that he won't ever make those changes

According to Fitzgerald, she has been married for four years but with her wife for twenty-two years and has a twelve-year-old daughter.

While Roncalli High School is rigid about its policies regarding LGBT people, it is refreshing to know that people such as McCormick are on Shelly's side on this issue. In my opinion, schools in general should not have exclusionary policies in place and when they're receiving taxpayer money, they should be open to everyone, regardless of sexual orientation. Gay, straight, black, white. Education should be a universal experience.

 

 


h/t: Fox 59

Gus Kenworthy Gives Back On His Birthday Sharing 'Birthday Suit' Pic

Woofy Olympic silver medalist Gus Kenworthy spent his birthday yesterday following the old adage “it’s better to give than to receive,” including giving his fans a pic wearing just his birthday suit.

Taking to Instagram, the newly-christened 27-year-old shared an outtake from his awesome ESPN Magazine Body Issue photo shoot revealing the skier in his buck-naked glory.

The pic was accompanied by the caption: “27-years-ago I came out of my mum wearing this exact same outfit. Strong queens make strong queens. Happy (my) birthday, Ma! #27.”

 

 

But wait - there's more!

In another post, with his totally cute pup Birdie, gorgeous Gus announced he will try to raise $1 million on the upcoming AIDS Life Cycle next June.

“It's my 27th birthday!!!,” he announced. “Do you wanna help make it my best birthday ever?? Then click the link in my bio and consider donating a few bucks to my @aidslifecycle campaign.”

“I’m going to be biking 545 miles from SFO to LA in June to help fight HIV/ AIDS,” promised the Olympic athlete. “I’ve pledged to raise $1,000,000 for the cause and I won't be able to get there without your help!”  

And before closing, Kenworthy linked to the AIDS Memorial’s Instagram account encouraging folks to learn more about the organization.

“Also, take a moment to visit @theaidsmemorial's page (it's the t-shirt I'm wearing) and read a few of the posts,” he added. “You'll quickly learn why this bike ride is so important to me! Thank you in advance for your generosity and for all the birthday wishes - I love you all!”

Man, do we love our Gus or what? #GiveGiveGive

 

 

(h/t Gay Star News)

Discrimination Against a Gay Man Occurred and it was Completely Legal

I don't know what it is about businesses refusing service to LGBTQ people but I do know that I'm tired of it. First the Masterpiece Cakeshop debacle and now this. Colton Southworth and his husband were denied service specifically because they're a gay couple.

Southworth and his husband had recently moved to Atlanta, Georgia and had dreams to transform their lawn into a beautiful garden. Colton researched different lawn services and found Botanica Atlanta Landscape and Design.

Southworth was enamored by the work of landscape business and decided to call the owner, Stuart DiNenno. That's when things went south, according to 11 Alive.

Colton explained the details of the work he wanted done on his lawn to DiNenno, who asked if Southworth wants this done for him and his wife. He explained that it's actually for him and his husband, to which DiNenno responded with the fact that he does not want to work with a gay couple. Southworth, not knowing what to do, simply said "ok" and hung up. Disturbed by this conservation, he went to Yelp and left a one-star review and recapped the conversation with DiNenno.

DiNenno saw the review and commented

"Yes, this is an accurate description of what happened. Large landscaping projects take several months." I can’t do that, all while going along with the delusion of two men calling themselves a married couple…It’s very perverse and foolish."

What a stand up guy... I wonder if he's ever heard of Obergefell v. Hodges? This is very clearly discriminatory and inflammatory, calling the union between to men a perversion. According to DiNenno, his company specializes in large-scale projects that average over $20,000. One would think that he would welcome Southworth for the monetary gain, but the business owner's bigotry is just too strong.

DiNenno recounted his phone conversation with Southworth in a Facebook post, saying ""I average about one or two calls per year from sodomites or lesbians. I always turn them down." He has also said that his religious beliefs say that gay people should be put to death.

How charming.

Despite denying service to someone based on their sexuality, what DiNenno did was completely legal due to the fact that in the majority of US states, there is no protection from discrimination for LGBTQ people. One may question why that is, seeing as it would be illegal to discriminate against someone based on their skin color or sex.

This instance is just one of many that shows that LGBTQ activists must keep fighting for equal rights. Many may think that because LGBTQ people gained the right to marry in 2015 that we have achieved equality. Evidently, that is not true. It is imperative that LGBTQ people and our allies keep fighting for what is right.

 

 

h/t: 11Alive

 

 

Luxury Condos Could Threaten Leather & LGBTQ Community In San Francisco

This past weekend, over 250,000 leather and kink enthusiasts converged on San Francisco’s South of Market (SoMA) district to enjoy the annual Folsom Street Fair.

The eagerly-awaited festival hosts hundreds of exhibitor booth for fetish gear and toys as well as a MainStage featuring top-name indie, electronic and alternative acts plus a huge dance floor.

And yes, nudity is allowed.

 

 

Begun in 1984, the FSF capitalizes on the adult-themed interest in BDSM to raise money for charity and celebrates the spirit of SoMA.

But that original fair wasn’t a leather event, says Gayle Rubin, a leather historian and anthropology professor who was there.

According to LGBTQ website them, Rubin shares that back in 1984 the point of Folsom was protesting redevelopment in the neighborhood.

And as housing and real estate prices continue to soar in the Bay City today, gentrification efforts in SoMA have become an even bigger threat to SoMA today.

For instance, back in the 1980s there were over three dozen leather bars, bondage gear stores and sex clubs. Now, only a handful exist thanks to new luxury condominium buildings and urban renewal.

 

 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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This past May, the San Francisco Board of Supervisors established the LGBTQ and Leather District as a cultural district in SoMA.

The goal of the district is to "honor and commemorate the people, places and institutions that gave South of Market its distinctive culture and appeal, and would also help protect the remaining businesses and spaces, and sustain the people who live, work and recreate there."

But no language exists in the ordinance in regards to long-term resources to stopping further commercial and housing displacement.

For instance, a new 410-unit building of one-bedroom rentals recently opened with rents starting at $3,600 a month. If you go by the “one-third” rule when considering how much of your annual income should be spent on housing, that comes out to an annual income of $130,000.

Now, there are a whole lot of people who will not be able to afford those units. And there are more higher-income housing projects in SoMA on the way.

One project called “Eagle Plaza” aims to turn the block next to the Eagle Bar (a cornerstone of the leather community) in to a “family-friendly,” “G-rated” area says one urban planner, Brooke Ray Rivera of PlaceLab.

A group of supporters of Eagle Plaza, “Friends of Eagle Plaza,” advocates for promoting an “Eyes on the Plaza” strategy to avoid "unhealthy behaviors in public space.”

Who gets to determine what "unhealthy behaviors" are?

As these projects proliferate, low-income residents businesses are forced out.

Many SoMA activists say the government has failed to invest in affordable lower income housing for the city’s residents.

In an attempt to address housing issues in San Francisco and across California, ballot initiative Prop. 10 aims to keep landlords from massively increasing rent costs each year.

And local initiative Prop. C would place a small tax on businesses that make more than $50 million a year. The funds raised would go to build affordable housing and shelter beds.

Terra Heywood, co-owner and manager of The Stud, San Francisco’s longest continuously running gay bar, says at the end of the day she just wants “queer and leather people to be able to stay in the neighborhood."

Exactly. Because who would want to see events like the Folsom Street Fair go away?

 

 

(h/t them)

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Renowned Gay Icon Cher Shares Her Fears After Chaz Came Out as Trans

Do you believe in life after... coming out? Gay icon and Goddess of Pop Cher, an ardent supporter of gay rights, interviewed Pride Source about being a gay icon and her relationship with her son, Chaz Bono, Wonderwall reports.

Cher is a well-known figure in the gay community for her social activism regarding HIV/AIDS prevention and LGBT rights. As most know, Cher has transgender son, Chaz Bono whom she loves and supports. However, according to the Pride Source interview, Cher did not always have an easy time with Chaz's coming out and transition.

Chaz officially came out as a lesbian in April of 1995 after being outed by tabloids five years prior. Chaz then came out as a transgender man to his parents. Cher had a difficult time accepting Chaz as transgender, as she was afraid that she was going to be losing a child.

This is what I think, and this is what I would hope: I would hope that, look, I didn't go through it that easily. Both times," she said. "When I found out Chaz was gay, I didn't go through it that easily; when I found out Chaz was [transitioning] ... except we talked about it a lot, actually. But then Chaz didn't mention it anymore, so I kind of forgot. And what I think is, there's such a fear of losing the child you love, and what will replace that child

I'm not a parent and won't be for a long time but I can imagine that taking in such information would be jarring for some.

Chaz underwent female-to-male transition in 2008-2010, and afterwarde changed his name and gender. This is rather significant and Cher was afraid that her child would be a different person after the transition but realized that Chaz must have been in a great deal of emotional pain living as a woman, and figured that since Chaz is happy living the life that he was destined to live, then she is happy too.

Cher accepting her transgender son is heartwarming as well as a teaching opportunity for many people. She was very afraid that her son would be a different person entirely after his transition but instead he remained Cher's child. This just shows that when people come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, pansexual, ace, etc., it does not change who they are as a person.


h/t: Pride SourceWonderwall

Fab Drag-Themed Musical 'Kinky Boots' Announces Closing Date After 6 Year Run

After six Tony Awards, a Drama Desk Award, a Grammy Award and many more honors, the hit Broadway musical Kinky Boots has announced the production will bring down the curtain for the last time April 9, 2019, notching 2,507 performances at the Al Hirschfeld Theater.

The musical, which tells the world “You change the world when you change your mind,” has been celebrated on the Great White Way, in London, across the United States and around the world.

“The ideal big Broadway experience!” - The New York Observer

“This smash-hit struts its stuff with sparkle, stilettos and heart! - Time Out New York

Here's the synopsis via the official website:

Based on the 2005 film and inspired by a true story, KINKY BOOTS follows Charlie Price (Tony nominee STARK SANDS), an aspiring young businessman who is forced to give up his dreams of living the London city life in order to save his late father’s family business in Northern England. When Charlie suddenly inherits his father’s bankrupt shoe factory, he finds unexpected inspiration in the form of Lola (BILLY PORTER) a fabulous entertainer in need of some sturdy stilettos. As Charlie and Lola work to turn the factory around, this unlikely pair finds that they have more in common than they ever dreamed possible... and discovers that when you change your mind about someone, you can change your whole world.

From the beginning of the show’s genesis, the creators' message to audiences has been to learn to not only accept others for who they are, but to learn to love ourselves.

The show guide for Kinky Boots, provided to school groups who attend the show, underscores the importance of children learning to “let me be me.”

If you look at all of the influential people in the world, many of the most spectacular people were probably also highly unique individuals when they were younger. Could you imagine Lady Gaga at your high school prom or havingMark Zuckerberg sit at your lunch table? What’s funny is that what is often considered cool in school actually becomes average in the real world, whereas those students, who don’t quite fit in, may turn out to be shining stars when they grow-up.

Playing the outrageous drag queen with a heart, out actor Billy Porter's stunning performance as "Lola" won him a Tony Award, a Drama Desk Award and a Grammy.

Porter's star continues to rise thanks to his breakout role in the acclaimed FX series Pose (which boasted the largest LGBTQ cast in the history of television), and will be featured the new season of American Horror Story: Apocalypse.

Porter has also used his elevated celebrity status to raise his voice on behalf of the LGBTQ community every chance he gets.

Throughout the show’s run, stars from all corners of the celebrity spectrum have lined up to don those sexy, thigh-high red boots.

The list of past/present stars includes out pansexual lead singer of Panic at the Disco! Brendon Urie, American Idol winner David Cook, out lead singer for Neon Trees’ Tyler Glenn, TV host Wayne Brady, YouTube star Todrick Hall, out pop star Jake Shears, Dancing with the Stars' Mark Ballas, and Grammy Award winner Kirstin Maldonado of Pentatonix.

“When you’re watching something that is so based in joy, you just can’t deny it,” gushed Glenn when he joined the Broadway cast.

“When we first set out to make this show, we never could have imagined the success it would have here on Broadway and around the world,” said Harvey Fierstein (book) and Cyndi Lauper (composer) in a joint statement. “We speak on behalf of the entire company when we say how grateful we are to the fans who have embraced our work across four continents, and counting!”

“I’ll never forget the very first performance of this show, back in Chicago in the fall of 2012,” shared Tony Award winning director/choreographer Jerry Mitchell. “It was one of those magical nights in the theater, when the material connects with its audiences in exactly the way you hope for. It felt like a gift from the theater gods then, and it still does to this day.”

“In the years since, we have witnessed attitudes towards gender non-conformity start to change all across America in ways we couldn’t have begun to imagine in 2012,” Mitchell added. “It’s never easy saying farewell to a beloved production, but knowing that Kinky Boots is leaving a more accepting world than the one it was born into is hugely gratifying for everyone involved.”

If you haven’t seen the show yet, head down to the Al Hirschfeld Theater before April 9.

(h/t The Hollywood Reporter)

From Hate Comes Support: How Colorado is Paving a Path Towards LGBT Leadership

I've written about how this year holds the record for LGBTQ people running for positions in government in my post "Historic Number of LGBTQ People Run for Congress." In Colorado, there are currently seven LGBTQ individuals, which is a great feat. However, things in the Centennial State weren't always so great for LGBT people, reports the Denver Post


Related post: Travel Thursday: Denver, Colorado - It's Called the Mile High City and the Queen City But It May Also Be Our Newest Favorite Destination.


On the faithful night in 1992 when Bill Clinton was elected president, Democrats were ecstatic, as an unprecedented number of women were running for Congress, many of which won. While it was a great accomplishment for women across the country, lawmakers in Colorado passed Amendment 2, which, according to BallotPedia, would allow businesses to discriminate against LGBTQ people by prohibiting the state of Colorado from adopting protections for non-heterosexual people, making Colorado known colloquially as the Hate State. This caused boycotts to Colorado-based businesses, which caused a decrease in revenue. In addition, the amendment sparked LGBT activism across the state. In October of 1995, a Supreme Court case, Romer v. Evans was introduced to repeal Amendment 2, according to Justia. In this case, many people in Colorado felt that the amendment violated the Equal Protections Clause, which, as the name suggests, says that businesses do not have the right to deny equal protection under the law. The Court decided 6-3 in May of 1996 to repeal the amendment.

However, while the amendment was overturned, Colorado lawmakers did not stop creating anti-LGBT legislation across state and federal levels. Democratic Colorado politicians helped elect liberal-minded people into the state legislature to help stop anti-LGBT laws being passed.

After Bill Clinton's presidency was over, George W. Bush, a man who attempted to create a nationwide amendment to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman, won the presidency twice. On the day of his reelection, Colorado switched from being a Republican-run state to a Democrat-run one. Under Democrat control, state legislature passed a bill to add protections for transgender people to Colorado's existing hate crime statutes. Eventually, Colorado state legislature passed laws that included protection in housing, employment, and adoption rights. Colorado is one of the few states that offers full protection under the law for LGBT people. 

Even now, more and more LGBTQ people are running for positions in Congress because of the ever-popular "bathroom bills" sweeping the nation and worries over the Trump administration's stance on LGBT rights. 

Being born at the tail end of 1994 in New Jersey, I am fortunate enough to have been born in a time and location where LGBT people lived and continue to live in a relatively equal state. Unfortunately, there are still many places in the United States and around the world where LGBT people are being treated unfairly, to put it lightly. Colorado, once a hot bed of anti-LGBT leadership, has now become one of the best states for LGBT people because of the unacceptable, hateful policies that were in place to harm lesbians, gays, bisexuals, and transgender people. When people create hate, others fight back with love. It is my hope that across the US, LGBT people will be treated equally and fairly, as bigotry has no place in the land of the free.


h/t: Denver PostBallotPediaJustia


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One Step Forward, Two Steps Back: APU Does a 360 and Reinstates Ban

I've recently written about Azusa Pacific University lifting its ban on same-sex relationships on their campus in my post "Azusa Pacific University Removes Ban on Same-sex Relationships, Sex Still Out of the Question." To recap, Azusa Pacific University, an Evangelical college in California, had LGBT students who felt that they were being discriminated against because they were not allowed to express romance on campus unlike their heterosexual classmates so they spoke with the Dean of Students who listened to the LGBT students and lifted the ban on same-sex relationships on campus. The lift lasted a total of three days.

According to The Christian Post, APU's Board of Trustees reinstated the ban, saying that it never received approval to rephrase the wording in the student handbook that banned same-sex relationships. The Board also said that they are standing strong in their Christian faith and will never stray due to outside pressure. It is my belief that the best way for societal change to occur is to listen to both sides on a specific issue and weigh the pros and cons and decide whether or not that the societal change is for the better. Take Christianity itself for example: During the 16th century, Martin Luther took the religion by storm by writing the Ninety-Five Theses, criticizing the Catholic Church's on the sale of indulgences (certificates that can be purchased in order to lessen the severity of sins, widely used by the Catholic Church), which, in turn, created the Protestant Reformation which then led to the formation of Lutheranism and other denominations of Christianity. 

So if Christianity itself can adapt to fit the beliefs of billions of people, it stands to reason that APU should be able to accommodate its LGBT students. However, the staff at Azusa are standing firm in their belief in biblical values. There are supporters of APU's decision, saying that keeping the ban on same-sex relationships is the right thing to do and while proponents of same-sex relationships will be unhappy, it was the right move. 

Students fought for years to get the ban lifted, saying that they were hurt by the discriminatory practices being enacted by APU and that by lifting the ban, LGBT students felt less stigmatized, as many conservative Christian groups view LGBT people as lesser beings who engage impermissible sexual acts.

It is my hope that APU will eventually come to terms with homosexuality and allow same-sex relationships on campus, but it being a private school, it is unlikely that it will happen. By banning same-sex relationships, Azusa Pacific University is othering LGBT individuals and treating them unfairly, which is the complete opposite of one of Christianity's central tenets.  


h/t: The Christian Post

Minister Fired for Liking and Posting Facebook Pictures Of a Same-Sex Wedding

As of June 26th, 2015, same-sex marriage has been recognized as a valid union across the entire United States. Most places have caught up to the times, but, unfortunately, there are certain places that are slow to the uptake. One such place is the Catholic Diocese of Cleveland, where, according to News 5 Cleveland, they fired their minister, Keith Kozak, after he posted two Facebook posts that celebrated a same-sex wedding. The posts were of fellow Instinct blogger Adam Dupuis' friends, Jason and Kevin. Adam has written about them in his 2015 article "Gay Boys Everywhere Can Now Dream Of Their Own Fairy Tale Wedding. Here's Two To Get Those Dreams Started."

Keith attended the wedding and took pictures to celebrate his friends' love and marriage. Afterwards, he was called into a meeting where the thought that he was going to discuss an upcoming promotion with his boss.

Instead, they fired him.

Kozak never thought that he posted anything that would put his job in jeopardy, but according to the Cleveland diocese, showing support for a friend's happiness was too much. His supervisor and a member of the human resources team. They discussed the fact that he had liked a post supporting a same-sex couple and posted a few of the same wedding. The meeting ended quickly and he received a letter the next day saying that he was terminated from his position. Kozak never discussed his homosexuality with the Diocese, saying that he didn't think it was important. 

Keith says that he still believes in God but feels that the Catholic Diocese acted discriminatorily towards him for firing him for supporting same-sex marriage. The Diocese believes that Kozak's termination was appropriate.  

Like I mentioned before, many people in the US are in support of same-sex marriage but some still do not believe that it is moral. While there are many LGBT friendly religious organizations, the Catholic Diocese of Cleveland seems adamant in their disapproval of homosexuality. So adamant, in fact, that they would fire someone for supporting their friends who happen to be gay. It is my hope that most people will eventually support homosexuality across the globe and speaking out against injustices such as this is a great way to start. 


   h/t: News 5 Cleveland

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